Kai had an absolute fit a day after we dropped off her birthday party invitations. She was screaming and crying about how she didn’t want any boys there (her brother didn’t count, of course). Not sure where this came from because she insisted on giving a couple of invitations to some boys in her class. I double checked before passing them out. But after they were handed out and it was too late to change her mind, she changed her mind–dramatically. I tried to teach her that this was her decision and she had to accept that there would be snme boys there. She didn’t brighten up until I mentioned that even boys bring presents…